Dear Betty,
How do I know someone genuinely likes me and is not just about the sex?
Figuring out if someone genuinely likes you or is just in it for the sex can be tricky, but there are some telltale signs to look out for. First off, pay attention to how you spend your time together. If your interactions consistently revolve around physical intimacy with little effort to connect on other levels, it might be a red flag. On the flip side, someone who’s genuinely into you will want to share a variety of experiences – from casual hangouts to deeper conversations. They’ll show interest in your thoughts, feelings, and life outside the bedroom. Emotional connection is key here; look for someone who’s supportive, listens actively, and remembers the little things about you. That said, physical attraction is still an important part of a healthy relationship. The difference is that when someone genuinely likes you, intimacy becomes an extension of your emotional bond rather than the main focus. Ultimately, it’s about balance – a mix of quality time, emotional support, and physical connection is what you’re after.