Dear Betty,
Can you help me to understand why committing to my boyfriend of two years feels scary? I have fearlessly pursued and secured a great career and other goals in my life. I am 30 years old, love him dearly and want to want to say Yes.
Thank you for helping me.
Your fan,
Sarah
Sarah, at 30, you’ve built a successful career and are on the cusp of something beautiful in your personal life. Yet, after two years with your boyfriend, you find yourself hesitating to take that next step. It’s natural to feel scared – commitment can seem like a leap into the unknown. But consider this: your relationship has already weathered two years of ups and downs, laughter and tears. **Isn’t that a testament to its strength?** Your fear might be whispering “what ifs,” but your heart knows the joy and support you’ve found. Remember, committing doesn’t mean losing yourself; it means growing together, supporting each other’s dreams, and building a future filled with shared experiences. *You’re not just saying yes to him; you’re saying yes to yourself and the life you’ve always wanted.* Take a deep breath, trust in the love you’ve nurtured, and allow yourself to embrace this chance at happiness. After all, the most beautiful gardens grow from seeds of courage planted in fertile soil of love.
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