Betty Answers Dating Questions

Ask Betty: I want to jump back into the dating pool and don’t know where to start

Betty, I want to jump back into the dating pool and don’t know where to start. Can you help me? In today's swipe-right, swipe-left world, the biggest hurdle for daters isn't finding matches—it's figuring out what they actually want from the dating scene. **Knowing your own intentions** is like having a GPS for your love life. Are you after a casual fling or searching for your soulmate? Maybe you're somewhere in between, and that's okay too! The key is being honest with yourself. It's … [Read More...] about Ask Betty: I want to jump back into the dating pool and don’t know where to start

Ask Betty: Hey Betty, what are some signs of scammers using online dating apps?

Hey Betty, what are some signs of scammers using online dating apps? Great question! Unfortunately, online dating scammers are becoming as common as ghosting. These digital Casanovas are getting craftier by the day, but don't worry, I’ve got your back! Keep an eye out for these red flags:  profiles with sketchy details, love bombers who shower you with affection faster than you can say "swipe right," and those who always have a *super urgent* reason why they need your cash. As dating … [Read More...] about Ask Betty: Hey Betty, what are some signs of scammers using online dating apps?

Ask Betty: How do I know someone genuinely likes me and is not just about the sex?

Dear Betty, How do I know someone genuinely likes me and is not just about the sex? Figuring out if someone genuinely likes you or is just in it for the sex can be tricky, but there are some telltale signs to look out for. First off, pay attention to how you spend your time together. If your interactions consistently revolve around physical intimacy with little effort to connect on other levels, it might be a red flag. On the flip side, someone who's genuinely into you will want to … [Read More...] about Ask Betty: How do I know someone genuinely likes me and is not just about the sex?

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Online Dating Advice

How to Begin Feeling Safe Enough to Express Our Truth

“Nothing in this world is harder than speaking the truth, nothing easier than flattery,” Fyodor Dostoyevsky, a Russian novelist, once said. And so, this is how millions of people feel and behave every single day. It’s hard to speak our truth or to reveal our true feelings to someone, especially when we have an unnerving fear that we may upset them. But by learning tools which can assist us in overcoming this fear and using our powerful voice in such a way that we are truly heard; we will be … [read more]

Innovative and Fun Ways to Date During COVID-19

Without a doubt, the COVID-19 pandemic has taken over the year 2020 thus far, causing extraordinary consequences. Individuals, businesses, and establishments worldwide are facing financial, physical, mental and emotional distress, and it’s also no secret that COVID-19 has made a big impact on the world of dating, sex and relationships. Luckily, we have the advancement of technology on our side, which has proven to be an invaluable way to boost morale, decrease feelings of loneliness and … [read more]

Is Online Dating Your New Career?

In movie after movie we see characters who seem to make dating their career. Male or female - they never “find the one” (well, at least until they meet the other star of the movie!) and instead move from one conquest or short term relationship to another. Though you may have met people like that, this sort of character is not one most of us relate to. If you are trying to stop the endless cycle of online dating – then you likely identify with the character that feels they have been dating … [read more]

Critical Acclaim!

Betty helped me to regain my authenticity and confidence

I was down-right desperate to find love. I was looking in all the wrong places and found my emotions to be all over the place every time I went on a date. I felt disappointed and hopeless. Betty helped me to regain my authenticity and confidence. She didn’t just help me to find a partner, but … [Read More...]

I just wanted someone to come home to…

It’s hard to really remember just how lonely I was before I met my partner. I had a great way of hiding just how lonesome life was, even though I’ve always had an active social life. I just wanted someone to come home to. My partner and I have now been going strong for almost a year and are … [Read More...]

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Expert Dating & Relationship Advice

Dating Risks are Worth the Relationship Reward

Dating can be an exciting and thrilling experience. It's a journey that often involves taking risks, putting yourself out there, and opening your heart to the possibility of love. While there are inherent risks in the dating world, the rewards that come from finding a meaningful relationship are immeasurable. In this article, we will explore why taking risks in dating is worth the relationship reward. From discovering true love to fostering a sense of self, the benefits of stepping outside your … [read more]

The Science of Attraction: Exploring the Complexities of Sexual and Emotional Attraction in Dating and Relationships

‍As humans, we are wired to seek connections with others. Whether it's to fulfill our physical desires or to find companionship and emotional support, attraction plays a crucial role in our personal lives. But what exactly is attraction, and how does it work? In this article, we will explore the science behind sexual and emotional attraction in dating and relationships. Understanding attraction: what is it and how does it work? Attraction is a complex mix of physical, emotional, and … [read more]

Nice Guys Finish Last? Not Anymore! How to Overcome the Nice Guy Syndrome and Thrive

As a relationship coach, I’ve seen many people struggling with relationships, especially with the Nice Guy Syndrome. This phenomenon affects both men and women, and it can be detrimental to their happiness and well-being. In this article, I will explore what the Nice Guy Syndrome is, how it affects people, and how to overcome it. Understanding the Nice Guy Syndrome The Nice Guy Syndrome is a term coined by Dr. Robert A. Glover in his book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy." It refers to a set of … [read more]