Betty Answers Dating Questions

Question: My boyfriend is constantly asking me about my social media posts, comments, likes, etc.

Hey Betty, my boyfriend is constantly asking me about my social media posts, comments, likes, etc.  Of course, I answer him honestly and I’m a little confused about what’s up with this.  Can you give me some insights? I love your advice posts and would greatly appreciate hearing your take on this situation. Amanda Hey Amanda, so, your boyfriend's been grilling you about your social media activity, huh? That’s a tricky situation that many couples face in our hyper-connected world. On … [Read More...] about Question: My boyfriend is constantly asking me about my social media posts, comments, likes, etc.

Question: Hey Betty, what is the difference between physical cheating and emotional cheating?

Question:  Hey Betty, what is the difference between physical cheating and emotional cheating?  I think my boyfriend is having an emotional affair with his coworker and when I asked him about the relationship, he said they were just very close friends, yet he seems obsessed with her. When it comes to relationship infidelity, there's more than one way to cheat on your partner. While physical cheating might be what first comes to mind, emotional cheating can be just as damaging – if not … [Read More...] about Question: Hey Betty, what is the difference between physical cheating and emotional cheating?

Question: I have a sinking feeling in my gut that my girlfriend just can’t give me what I need. What should I do?

Question:  Dear Betty, I have a sinking feeling in my gut that my girlfriend of 2 years that I’ve been pouring my heart into just can’t give me what I need.  What should I do? Seeing unresolvable unmet needs in your relationship is a tough place to be.  I understand you've been there, giving it your all – the love, the attention, trying to make them a priority. But no matter how hard you try, it feels like you're pushing a boulder uphill. Maybe they can't match your level of commitment, … [Read More...] about Question: I have a sinking feeling in my gut that my girlfriend just can’t give me what I need. What should I do?

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Online Dating Advice

How to Begin Feeling Safe Enough to Express Our Truth

“Nothing in this world is harder than speaking the truth, nothing easier than flattery,” Fyodor Dostoyevsky, a Russian novelist, once said. And so, this is how millions of people feel and behave every single day. It’s hard to speak our truth or to reveal our true feelings to someone, especially when we have an unnerving fear that we may upset them. But by learning tools which can assist us in overcoming this fear and using our powerful voice in such a way that we are truly heard; we will be … [read more]

Innovative and Fun Ways to Date During COVID-19

Without a doubt, the COVID-19 pandemic has taken over the year 2020 thus far, causing extraordinary consequences. Individuals, businesses, and establishments worldwide are facing financial, physical, mental and emotional distress, and it’s also no secret that COVID-19 has made a big impact on the world of dating, sex and relationships. Luckily, we have the advancement of technology on our side, which has proven to be an invaluable way to boost morale, decrease feelings of loneliness and … [read more]

Is Online Dating Your New Career?

In movie after movie we see characters who seem to make dating their career. Male or female - they never “find the one” (well, at least until they meet the other star of the movie!) and instead move from one conquest or short term relationship to another. Though you may have met people like that, this sort of character is not one most of us relate to. If you are trying to stop the endless cycle of online dating – then you likely identify with the character that feels they have been dating … [read more]

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Betty helped me to regain my authenticity and confidence

I was down-right desperate to find love. I was looking in all the wrong places and found my emotions to be all over the place every time I went on a date. I felt disappointed and hopeless. Betty helped me to regain my authenticity and confidence. She didn’t just help me to find a partner, but … [Read More...]

I just wanted someone to come home to…

It’s hard to really remember just how lonely I was before I met my partner. I had a great way of hiding just how lonesome life was, even though I’ve always had an active social life. I just wanted someone to come home to. My partner and I have now been going strong for almost a year and are … [Read More...]

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Expert Dating & Relationship Advice

Dating Risks are Worth the Relationship Reward

Dating can be an exciting and thrilling experience. It's a journey that often involves taking risks, putting yourself out there, and opening your heart to the possibility of love. While there are inherent risks in the dating world, the rewards that come from finding a meaningful relationship are immeasurable. In this article, we will explore why taking risks in dating is worth the relationship reward. From discovering true love to fostering a sense of self, the benefits of stepping outside your … [read more]

The Science of Attraction: Exploring the Complexities of Sexual and Emotional Attraction in Dating and Relationships

‍As humans, we are wired to seek connections with others. Whether it's to fulfill our physical desires or to find companionship and emotional support, attraction plays a crucial role in our personal lives. But what exactly is attraction, and how does it work? In this article, we will explore the science behind sexual and emotional attraction in dating and relationships. Understanding attraction: what is it and how does it work? Attraction is a complex mix of physical, emotional, and … [read more]

Nice Guys Finish Last? Not Anymore! How to Overcome the Nice Guy Syndrome and Thrive

As a relationship coach, I’ve seen many people struggling with relationships, especially with the Nice Guy Syndrome. This phenomenon affects both men and women, and it can be detrimental to their happiness and well-being. In this article, I will explore what the Nice Guy Syndrome is, how it affects people, and how to overcome it. Understanding the Nice Guy Syndrome The Nice Guy Syndrome is a term coined by Dr. Robert A. Glover in his book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy." It refers to a set of … [read more]