Betty Answers Dating Questions

Question: Will I ever find true love?

Dear Betty, Will I ever find true love? Yes, true love is possible and there is hope for you to find it. One of the secrets to finding real love is by emphasizing one's true self. People are attracted to authenticity, and by being genuine, you increase your chances of finding someone who truly loves and accepts you for who you are. In addition, having a positive outlook can also help in finding true love. Positive thinking has been found to be associated with better psychological … [Read More...] about Question: Will I ever find true love?

Question: How do I know if she’s the one?

Question:  How do I know if she’s the one? Ah, the age-old question of how to know if she's the one! It's a question that has puzzled many before you, but fear not, for there are some telltale signs that can help you determine if your partner is the one you want to be with for the long haul. First and foremost, true love is the foundation of any successful relationship. You should feel a deep connection and affection for your partner and be willing to put in the work to maintain and … [Read More...] about Question: How do I know if she’s the one?

QUESTION: I feel that the person I am dating is gaslighting me. How can I know?

Dear Betty, I feel that the person I am dating is gaslighting me.  How can I know? Dating can be a thrilling experience, full of joy, excitement and the possibility of finding someone special. It’s a chance to discover that person you can share a connection with and build a meaningful relationship with. However, it can also be difficult, tricky, and extremely difficult to detect when something is wrong in a relationship. Gaslighting in dating can be hard to recognize and is a form … [Read More...] about QUESTION: I feel that the person I am dating is gaslighting me. How can I know?

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Online Dating Advice

How to Begin Feeling Safe Enough to Express Our Truth

“Nothing in this world is harder than speaking the truth, nothing easier than flattery,” Fyodor Dostoyevsky, a Russian novelist, once said. And so, this is how millions of people feel and behave every single day. It’s hard to speak our truth or to reveal our true feelings to someone, especially when we have an unnerving fear that we may upset them. But by learning tools which can assist us in overcoming this fear and using our powerful voice in such a way that we are truly heard; we will be … [read more]

Innovative and Fun Ways to Date During COVID-19

Without a doubt, the COVID-19 pandemic has taken over the year 2020 thus far, causing extraordinary consequences. Individuals, businesses, and establishments worldwide are facing financial, physical, mental and emotional distress, and it’s also no secret that COVID-19 has made a big impact on the world of dating, sex and relationships. Luckily, we have the advancement of technology on our side, which has proven to be an invaluable way to boost morale, decrease feelings of loneliness and … [read more]

Is Online Dating Your New Career?

In movie after movie we see characters who seem to make dating their career. Male or female - they never “find the one” (well, at least until they meet the other star of the movie!) and instead move from one conquest or short term relationship to another. Though you may have met people like that, this sort of character is not one most of us relate to. If you are trying to stop the endless cycle of online dating – then you likely identify with the character that feels they have been dating … [read more]

Critical Acclaim!

Betty helped me to regain my authenticity and confidence

I was down-right desperate to find love. I was looking in all the wrong places and found my emotions to be all over the place every time I went on a date. I felt disappointed and hopeless. Betty helped me to regain my authenticity and confidence. She didn’t just help me to find a partner, but … [Read More...]

I just wanted someone to come home to…

It’s hard to really remember just how lonely I was before I met my partner. I had a great way of hiding just how lonesome life was, even though I’ve always had an active social life. I just wanted someone to come home to. My partner and I have now been going strong for almost a year and are … [Read More...]

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Expert Dating & Relationship Advice

The Science of Attraction: Exploring the Complexities of Sexual and Emotional Attraction in Dating and Relationships

‍As humans, we are wired to seek connections with others. Whether it's to fulfill our physical desires or to find companionship and emotional support, attraction plays a crucial role in our personal lives. But what exactly is attraction, and how does it work? In this article, we will explore the science behind sexual and emotional attraction in dating and relationships. Understanding attraction: what is it and how does it work? Attraction is a complex mix of physical, emotional, and … [read more]

Nice Guys Finish Last? Not Anymore! How to Overcome the Nice Guy Syndrome and Thrive

As a relationship coach, I’ve seen many people struggling with relationships, especially with the Nice Guy Syndrome. This phenomenon affects both men and women, and it can be detrimental to their happiness and well-being. In this article, I will explore what the Nice Guy Syndrome is, how it affects people, and how to overcome it. Understanding the Nice Guy Syndrome The Nice Guy Syndrome is a term coined by Dr. Robert A. Glover in his book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy." It refers to a set of … [read more]

Setting Boundaries in Dating: How to Build Healthy Relationships and Keep Yourself Safe

Setting boundaries in dating is key to having healthy relationships and keeping yourself safe. It’s all about understanding and respecting the limits of the other person, and yourself. This blog article will explore what boundaries in dating are, why they’re important, and how to set them. We’ll look at the different types of boundaries, warning signs of a relationship without boundaries, and tips for setting boundaries in dating. We’ll also look at strategies for keeping yourself safe and … [read more]