Why should you hire a dating coach? After all, you’ve got tons of friends that can help you out!
Right. And what friends tell you is either influenced by their own fears and biases or is what they think you want to hear (“great profile” “love that smile”, “so cute holding your dog”). So your online dating result remains be same as it’s been for the last how many months or years?
There are 40 million Americans using online dating websites. The users are young, old, religious, not religious, short, tall…HELP! It can be overwhelming and even frustrating to make a meaningful connection with seemingly limitless choices and services.
We hire professionals to guide us when we want to be physically fit, find a job, obtain career advancement, become public speakers, learn to dance, etc. An online dating coach is just another professional who will help you become successful at something you want to accomplish.
Let’s look at a few of the benefits in hiring a professional online dating coach:
- Online dating coaches are experts in all aspects of dating, not just the online part.
- With an online dating coach you’ll receive professional, unbiased input to assist you in identifying potential destructive dating patterns.
- An online dating coach will help you identify what you want and need in a relationship, so you can present yourself in a way to bring about that kind of relationship.
- An online dating coach will help you optimize your online dating profile, including assistance in profile writing or re-writing and photo critiquing. And they will do it with objective feedback.
- An online dating coach will support you in vetting partners and identifying those who are not right for you.
- With an online dating coach you will receive image consulting, training in how to read and use body language, and other useful dating skills.
- A professional online dating coach will help you determine the online services that are most likely to help you find like-minded singles.
- An online dating coach becomes your accountability partner so that if you fall back into old habits, the coach will help you get back on track.
- An online dating coach will help you develop increased self-confidence. You’ll even learn how to approach someone and read indirect messages.
- And most importantly – you will develop an online dating strategy to get the love you deserve so that your dating success will skyrocket!
So if you answer yes to any of the following questions, you need an online dating coach:
- Are you new (or newly back) in the dating pool and unsure of where to start?
- Do the number and variety of online dating sites seem overwhelming to you?
- Are you confused or unsure about how to write a profile and which pictures to include?
- Do you know how to date safely?
- Are you shy and insecure, or afraid of rejection?
- Do you have no idea what to say or do on a date?
- Is showing your true self important to you?
- Do you repeatedly find yourself in so-so or simply bad relationships?
- When you date someone, is it hard for you to tell if it’s a good match or not?
- Are you ready to find the love of your life?
When hiring an online dating coach, check both credentials and experience. If your online dating coach is also a certified life coach and certified singles coach as I am—that’s a bonus because we look at the TOTAL YOU – which will lead to the happy, fulfilling relationship you are seeking.