Dear Betty, Can you tell me some reasons why I should date again? Of course, there are many. It’s time to rediscover the thrill of new romance and the happiness that comes with it. After a break-up or a long period of being single, sometimes we forget how exciting and exhilarating it can be to [read more]
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Dear Betty, What’s wrong with me? I keep attracting the same old dead end relationships. Please help me. Let’s turn this around so you can start attracting a loving fulfilling relationship with the right person for you. Let’s start with observing, non-judgmentally how you are showing up in your relationships. As you are noticing your [read more]
Dear Betty, Can I trust my girlfriend after I caught her sexting with an old lover? Discovering that your girlfriend has been sexting with an old lover can be a devastating blow to the trust in your relationship. Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship, and when it is shattered by infidelity and betrayal, [read more]
Question: Dear Betty, I’m thrilled that she said yes to a first date! What do you recommend for a “best first date ever” experience? Congratulations! Getting a first date can be both exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. But with some creative and romantic ideas, you can sweep your partner off their feet. The [read more]
Dear Betty, Will I ever find true love? Yes, true love is possible and there is hope for you to find it. One of the secrets to finding real love is by emphasizing one’s true self. People are attracted to authenticity, and by being genuine, you increase your chances of finding someone who truly loves [read more]
Question: How do I know if she’s the one? Ah, the age-old question of how to know if she’s the one! It’s a question that has puzzled many before you, but fear not, for there are some telltale signs that can help you determine if your partner is the one you want to be with [read more]
Dear Betty, I feel that the person I am dating is gaslighting me. How can I know? Dating can be a thrilling experience, full of joy, excitement and the possibility of finding someone special. It’s a chance to discover that person you can share a connection with and build a meaningful relationship with. However, it [read more]
Dear Betty, Can you help me understand why I have a hard time asking for what I need in a relationship? Yes, I can help you. This a very important question because all relationships end due to unmet needs or death. Whether the needs are known or unknown, spoken or unspoken they are critical to [read more]