Dear Betty, Can you help me understand why I have a hard time asking for what I need in a relationship? Yes, I can help you. This a very important question because all relationships end due to unmet needs or death. Whether the needs are known or unknown, spoken or unspoken they are critical to [read more]
Question: Can you help me to understand why I take breadcrumbs in my relationships?
Question: Dear Betty, Can you help me to understand why I take breadcrumbs in my relationships? Whether it’s love, dating, friendship, or career, it seems like I’m always settling for crumbs instead of the whole loaf. It’s a pattern I can’t seem to break. Yes, I can help you to understand some possible reasons why [read more]
Setting Boundaries in Dating: How to Build Healthy Relationships and Keep Yourself Safe
Setting boundaries in dating is key to having healthy relationships and keeping yourself safe. It’s all about understanding and respecting the limits of the other person, and yourself. This blog article will explore what boundaries in dating are, why they’re important, and how to set them. We’ll look at the different types of boundaries, warning [read more]
Question: Can you help me to stop being a scorekeeper with my partner?
Question: Can you help me to stop being a scorekeeper with my partner? Answer: YES! First, let’s try to understand why you feel the need to keep score. Below are some possibilities: Scorekeepers may: ✓ feel unappreciated or taken for granted. This can happen in a relationship as time goes on. We get “used to” each other. [read more]
Question: How can I stop falling in love so quickly?
Question: How can I stop falling in love so quickly? I feel that my thoughts and actions of “This is the one” makes me look overly needy and desperate and drives them away. It’s time to pump the brakes. If it is to resolve itself into the love of your life, it simply needs time. [read more]
Question: I met a new guy that seems too perfect but I am afraid that he may be a narcissist
Dear Betty, I met a new guy that seems perfect, too perfect and although I am mesmerized, I am afraid that he may be a narcissist. Can you help me identify red flags? The classic narcissist is fascinating, in that way that so many things are—like car accidents and other disasters—and we look at them [read more]
Question: How do I flirt with women properly and create attraction?
Hey Betty, How do I flirt with women properly and create attraction? Dating Coach Betty: So, have you tried flirting? Client: Yes, of course Dating Coach Betty: Please show me Client: I bite my lip seductively Dating Coach Betty: Have you tried biting your bottom lip? Those are some great questions about being desirable and [read more]
Being Vulnerable is Your Superpower!
Many believe that the word ‘vulnerable’ is synonymous with the word ‘weakness’. And today, we are going to shatter that belief into a million little pieces. You are going to learn that being vulnerable, in any capacity, is actually a superpower. It signifies being strong, brave, and courageous. And by embracing your vulnerability, you will [read more]