Question: Dear Betty, I have a sinking feeling in my gut that my girlfriend of 2 years that I’ve been pouring my heart into just can’t give me what I need. What should I do? Seeing unresolvable unmet needs in your relationship is a tough place to be. I understand you’ve been there, giving it [read more]
Why does committing to my boyfriend of two years feel scary?
Dear Betty, Can you help me to understand why committing to my boyfriend of two years feels scary? I have fearlessly pursued and secured a great career and other goals in my life. I am 30 years old, love him dearly and want to want to say Yes. Thank you for helping me. Your fan, Sarah [read more]
Question: How do I know I’ve found the right partner for me?
Dear Betty, How do I know I’ve found the right partner for me? Finding the right partner is an exhilarating journey filled with love, trust, and endless possibilities. It’s like uncovering a hidden treasure, a rare gem that brings out the best in you. When you stumble upon that special someone who makes your heart [read more]
Question: Will I ever find true love?
Dear Betty, Will I ever find true love? Yes, true love is possible and there is hope for you to find it. One of the secrets to finding real love is by emphasizing one’s true self. People are attracted to authenticity, and by being genuine, you increase your chances of finding someone who truly loves [read more]
Ten Great Summer Dates
Summer is almost here! At a loss for what the heck to do this your big date? Summer is your chance to mix things up a little. In the dreary winter months it is not so easy to find a cool new idea for a date, whether with your main squeeze or someone you are [read more]
“Going Steady” — Are You Ready to be Exclusive?
At one time, in our culture, “going steady” was the term for a commitment to an exclusive relationship without the finality of a marriage contract. Whether you “wore his pin” or “gave her your ring” – usually high school – going steady was a statement. We may not call it that any more, but deciding [read more]
Live together or Marry? 21st Century Options
A mere 50 years ago (which isn’t that long, really) everything was very different. There was still a huge stigma on couples who chose to live together “out of wedlock” as it was called, and parents whose children did so white-knuckled the social embarrassment until they could finally send out those wedding announcements. Aside from [read more]
Part One of a Great Relationship – Emotional Intimacy
The key to any successful relationship is genuine attachment. Obviously you have a different relationship with a housemate or friend than you do with your lover. No matter how close a friend a housemate is, the attachment of a lover is bound to be deeper. It is based on full understanding which leads to a [read more]