Kimia had been in several relationships that started out well, but eventually did not fulfill her. She invariably ended up feeling taken advantage of, and that her boyfriends did not really care deeply for her. I asked her, “Do you think you made it clear to them that you won’t tolerate disrespectful behavior and that [read more]
Honoring Father’s Day, Dating A Single Dad
Did you know that the very first Father’s Day was celebrated on June, 19th 1910 in the state of Washington, and 58 years later, this special day became a nationwide holiday? Today people all over the world honor and give thanks to their dads and father-figures, making it a moment in time where we can [read more]
Newly Single Part 3—Making the Introductions
Now your children are used to the fact that you go out on dates, and maybe they are aware that you have been seeing one particular person for awhile now. What about the next step in the parenting/dating interface? When—and how— do the kids meet this person? Here are some tips. Introduce them later rather [read more]
Newly Single Part 2 – Dating + Children
Being a parent is one of the most meaningful roles a person can fill in life. The relationship between a parent and a child, at any stage of growth from cradle to college and beyond, is unique, beautiful, challenging, rewarding, and of inestimable value. Last tiem I talked about being newly single and back in [read more]
Newly Single Part 1 – Re-discovering Yourself
No matter how wrenching a break-up, at some point you’ll think: “Oh, no. I’ll have to start dating again.” You may be surprised how early in your grieving process it hits you. Thoughts like, “What will become of me? Will I be alone forever?” –admittedly depressing and not ultimately helpful—are totally normal. When you are [read more]
Just Divorced Dating – Avoid the Rebound
It’s been a long time since you have been on a date, probably with someone you are no longer married to. How do you know when to start dating after the divorce? The stress and pain of it is behind you, but maybe not far enough. Let me help you navigate this tricky transition time [read more]
Dating a Divorced Woman
Now that you’re ready to date, have you considered dating a divorced woman? If you listen to the negative comments made by some comedians and on popular sitcoms, you might be misled and pass up a wonderful chance to connect with someone special by unnecessarily limiting your dating pool. That said, you should be aware [read more]